Attend to Matters of the Heart!
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Game Instructions: Here you may deepen your relationship, propose marriage, or arrange to spend evenings with a sweetheart.
Locked with 
Establishing Social Relations 3
Storylet appears in 
Your Social Engagements
Pursue a romantic relationship
Admit your affection for an acquaintance
- Spoiler Action Cost: 5
Unlocked with
1 x Free Evening, 
10 x Romantic Notion, 
1 x Touching Love Story
Locked with
Seen with [friend] 1
Your friend needs An Admission of Affection [you] 0, Seen with [you] 0, 
Acquainted With [you] 1, 
Espoused to [you] 0
When Sent
The precipice You confess your regard for them. How will they respond?
Your friend will receive:
[Your Name] has admitted their admiration for you. Are you willing to deepen your relationship?
Once Accepted
You will receive:
You have admitted your affection for [friend].
You've lost 1 x Free Evening
You've lost 10 x Romantic Notion
You've lost 1 x Touching Love Story
Your friend will receive:
[Your name] has admitted their admiration for you. Are you willing to deepen your relationship?
An Admission of Affection [your name] (+1)
Redirects to: An Admission of Affection
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Spend time with your sweetheart
Ask your sweetheart to an evening of restrained sophistication
- Spoiler Unlocked with
1 x Free Evening
When Sent
'You are cordially invited...'
- You've lost 1 x Free Evening
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
You invited [friend] to an evening of restrained pleasures.
Your friend will receive:
[Your name] has invited you to an evening of restrained pleasures!
Asked to an Austere Date [your name] (+1) (hidden)- Redirects to: An Austere Evening with your Sweetheart
Ask your sweetheart to an indulgent evening
- Spoiler Unlocked with
1 x Free Evening, Seen with [friend]
Your friend needs Seen with [you]
When Sent
The right wrong crowd
- You've lost 1 x Free Evening
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
You invited [friend] to an evening of immoderate pleasures.
Your friend will receive:
[Your name] has invited you to an evening of immoderate pleasures!
Asked to an Indulgent Date [your name] (+1) (hidden)- Redirects to: An Indulgent Evening with your Sweetheart
Call on your sweetheart
- Spoiler Unlocked with
1 x Free Evening, Seen with [friend]
Locked with
Scandal 4
Your friend needs Seen with [you]
When Sent
An understanding
- You've lost 1 x Free Evening
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
You invited [friend] to a chaperoned date.
Your friend will receive:
[Your name] has suggested a time for a date; you must now suggest a chaperone.
Invited to a Chaperoned Date [your name] (+1) (hidden)- Redirects to: Arranging a chaperoned evening
Taking things to the next level
Make a simple proposal of marriage
- Spoiler Action Cost: 5
Unlocked with
100 x Piece of Rostygold, 
1 x Moon-Pearl, 10 x Romantic Notion, 1 x Free Evening
Locked with
Images of a Wedding:, 
Organising a Wedding, Committed:, Espoused to each other, 
Engaged to each other, Humbly Proposing each other or Extravagantly Proposing each other
Your friend needs Seen with you, 
A Person of Some Importance - is: Not yet a Person of Importance, Committed: is: You are not committed to a relationship, 
Organising a Wedding 0, Images of a Wedding: 0
When Sent
A perfect match? You plight your troth. How will they answer?
- You've lost 1 x Free Evening
- You've lost 10 x Romantic Notion
You've lost 1 x Moon-Pearl
You've lost 100 x Piece of Rostygold- Humbly Proposing [Friend] (+1)
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
What will they say?
Your friend will receive:
[Player] has asked you to marry them!
You've gained 1 x Humble Ring
Make a grand proposal of marriage
- Spoiler Action Cost: 5
Unlocked with 100 x Romantic Notion, 
1 x Magnificent Diamond, 
1 x Personal Recommendation, 1 x Night on the Town, 1 x Free Evening, Seen with [friend] 1
Locked with Images of a Wedding:, Organising a Wedding, Committed:, Espoused to each other, Engaged to each other, Humbly Proposing each other or Extravagantly Proposing each other
Your friend needs A Person of Some Importance -, Seen with you, Committed: is: You are not committed to a relationship, Organising a Wedding 0, Images of a Wedding: 0
When Sent
The moment
- You've lost 100 x Romantic Notion
You've lost 1 x Personal Recommendation- You've lost 1 x Night on the Town
- You've lost 1 x Free Evening
You've lost 1 x Magnificent Diamond- Extravagantly Proposing [friend] (+1)
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
What will they say?
Your friend will receive:
[Your name] has asked you to marry them!
You've gained 1 x Extravagant Ring
Foist the Organisation of your Wedding onto your partner
- Spoiler Unlocked with
Organising a Wedding, Engaged to [friend]
When Sent
A burden shared
Nightmares is dropping… (-1 CP)
You no longer have any of this: Organising a Wedding
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
[friend] has taken over the wedding arrangements. You can rest now.
Your friend will receive:
Your betrothed needs a little rest from all of the wedding planning. They've given the task of matching the cutlery to the tablecloths, ensuring the safe transportation of the cake to your venue, et cetera. Continue the preparations at your lodgings.
- Nightmares is increasing… (+1 CP)
- You now have [all of sender's] x Organising a Wedding
Married life
Invite your spouse to an indulgent evening out
- Spoiler Unlocked with
Images of a Wedding:, 1 x Free Evening
Locked with Asking your Spouse to an Indulgent Evening Out [friend] 1, Organising a Wedding 1
Your friend needs Espoused to (you), Organising a Wedding 0
When Sent
London awaits! Let there be no doubt: this evening will be delicious. Raucous waltzing in the Carnival's music tent? The engagement of a private room in the Parlour of Virtue? So many possibilities.
- Asking your Spouse to an Indulgent Evening Out [friend] (+1)
- You've lost 1 x Free Evening
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
You've asked your spouse.
Your friend will receive:
Your spouse has suggested a joyful night out. How about it?
- You've gained 1 x Considering an Indulgent Evening
Wiki note: This will unlock An Indulgent Evening with your Spouse for your friend.
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Invite your spouse out for a decorous evening
- Spoiler Unlocked with
Images of a Wedding:, 1 x Free Evening
Locked with
Asking your Spouse to a Decorous Evening Out (friend) 1, Organising a Wedding 1
Your friend needs Espoused to (you), Organising a Wedding 0
When Sent
A fine evening Perhaps you'll row across the lake in Jekyll Gardens! Or maybe you'll hold each other close, under the strict eye of an dancing coach.
Asking your Spouse to a Decorous Evening Out [friend] (+1)- You've lost 1 x Free Evening
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
It would be good to spend some time together.
Your friend will receive:
A night spent in respectable fashion with your spouse. What do you say?
- You've gained 1 x Considering a Decorous Evening
Wiki note: This will unlock A Decorous Evening with your Spouse for your friend.
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Invite your spouse to join you in sampling Prisoner's Honey (5 FATE)
- Spoiler Unlocked with
Images of a Wedding:
Locked with Organising a Wedding
Success
No reward narrative information available for Fate-locked actions.
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Break things off
Break off your relationship
- Spoiler Action Cost: 5
Unlocked with
1 x Hard-Earned Lesson, 1 x Free Evening, Seen with [friend] 1
Your friend needs Seen with [you] 1, Espoused to [you] 0
When Sent
Sweet sorrow
- You've lost 1 x Free Evening
Engaged to [friend] (-1)- Seen with [friend] (-1)
You've lost 1 x Hard-Earned Lesson
Making Waves is increasing… (+1-4 CP)
In Messages Tab
You will receive:
Your relationship with [friend] is over. You are no more than acquaintances, now.
Your friend will receive:
Your relationship with [your name] is over. You are no more than acquaintances, now. You'll not forget this betrayal.
Betrayed by [your name] (+1) (Wiki note: This doesn't do anything at the moment)- Making Waves is increasing… (+1-4 CP)
- You've gained 1 x Hard-Earned Lesson
- Engaged to [your name] (-1)
- Seen with [your name] (-1)
If you were Organising a Wedding:
- Redirects to: Aftermath
Seek a divorce
- Spoiler
Consider separation
- Spoiler Unlocked with
Committed:, 
Celebrated Artist's Model
Redirects to:
→ Separate from the Celebrated Artist's Model
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Consider separation
- Spoiler
