Don't go at all
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From: Attending a masquerade
It's sweet of him to ask, but you have other plans.
He takes the news with good grace
The Smuggler bows, kisses your hand, and expresses his fond hope that you will accept his next invitation. As you are leaving your lodgings the next morning, you notice that the postbox by the entrance has a new, fist-sized dent.
- You've lost 1 x Myrrh-Scented Rose