There are some limits
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From: A dream about a queen
You would not harm a child, for example. Or voluntarily consume Mrs Plenty's Rubbery Lumps.
This displeases the Red-Handed Queen.
'I am sending you away with the thunder,' she says. 'You will also go to the lightning. The dead men will take you North for a burial at sea.' Her cat just looks at you.