Do not risk it
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Perhaps it would be unwise to change things. Perhaps your friendship is only meant for dreams, and would not stand up to the harshness of reality.
A retreat into dreams
You continue to share dreams with the young gentleman. And very pleasant dreams they are too, for the most part. Were you right not to try to take things further? Best not worry about it. Have some more honey.