Leave it as-is
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From: A Pronominal Adjustment?
Action Cost: 0
Game Instructions: Currently, your character uses '[pronouns]' pronouns.
Unlocked with 
Referred to as:
Success
Done
Success Instructions: You can always adjust again from 'Matters of Identity', in your lodgings.
